“Are you a Good Witch or a Bad Witch?” This is a quote from the classic The Wizard of Oz. What a great question. Am I a good person or a bad person? Am I inherently nice or uncontrollably naughtly, kind or wicked? So what’s your aura, mean and green or bright and like crystallized white light?

Can you or someone you know be referred to as coldhearted with a heart as cold as ice? How can you tell if someone is coldhearted like the Care Bears Villain appropriately named Coldheart? Do cold hands mean you have a warm heart? How can you tell if someone you care about is a coldhearted fool?

On Memorial Day when you enjoy your picnic or parade or shop the holiday sales, remember to take the time to also cherish and pay tribute to the people who gave you both your roots to stay grounded and your wings to fly to your highest aspirations. Don't forget to remember!

Many of us have heard the saying that “the heart wants what the heart wants”, but what does that mean; and shouldn’t the brain have something to say about it too? After all the heart is like an engine in your body but the brain is like a computer. So what does the brain have to say?

Once Upon a time a child was born. She is my child. Mothers all over the world have shared my experience of giving birth and raising a child. We have many things in common but probably the strongest emotion most of us share is unconditional love for our children. This Mothers Day lets celebrate it!

Much has been written about friends and friendship. True friendship is a special bond or connection. Relationships with Real Friends should be cherished. Real Friends are like the riders of old of the Pony Express and US mail carriers - nothing stopped them from getting there when needed.

Do you know a Cheating Monster? It seems there is an Epidemic of Cheating In Progress. Cheating Monsters are men who claim they are in committed relationships until they choose to pretend they’re not and women who think that it’s perfectly acceptable to hit on someone else's boyfriend or husband.

So the loser is out of your life. It doesn’t matter how it ended - it ended. You’re sad, mad, and bored. The drama of a bad relationship is a big time waster so it stole your time. Stop looking at what you’ve lost, a loser who has been wasting your time and look at what you’ve gained – TIME.

Can you be logical with illogical people? Can you make them see things your way? Should you try or should you take a different approach? Sometimes you can make progress if the person is just stubborn but sometimes you’re just fighting a losing battle. What to do is entirely up to you.

We have often heard love described as a game. It’s described that way in songs, articles, books, etc. Unfortunately, even though it should be an honest interaction between two people, sometimes it really is more like a game being played by two people than a relationship being shared.