At Halloween we focus on magical and mystical, spooky and scary things. Well, relationships can be magical and can sometimes feel mystical and unfortunately are sometimes spooky and scary. Do you believe in magic? Is there magic in your relationship? Is it mystical; or is it spooky and scary?

Do Social Networks, Texting and Sexting Help or Hurt Relationships? OMG, what a stupid question; they help; or do they? Multiple relationships on MySpace and Facebook, while also texting or sexting others is cheating. That might make sense to grown-up pretenders but not to a real grown-ups.

Why do we love to watch movies where the underdog comes from behind to win what they are dreaming of winning? Is it because they Dare to Dream the Impossible Dream? What’s your Impossible Dream? Are you ready to treat your relationships with yourself and your dream as possible? Dare to Dream!

Who among us can resist a nice piece of our favorite cake? Having your cake and eating it too is often applied to wanting to have everything your own way while also appearing to be compliant in a relationship. This can be related to both things and actions. Can you have your cake and eat it too?

It’s a well known concept that opposites attract. Just like two magnets that only connect when the opposite poles meet, people who are polar opposites of each other often seem to be attracted. But what about their hearts, can two people complete each other if their hearts are in different places?

What goes around comes around, or so they say, and they also say that Friday the Thirteenth is just another day. Don’t walk under that ladder or don’t step on a grave or sidewalk crack, and if you spill the salt throw some over your back.

There are many emotions involved in relationships between two people - not only love; but love seems to get all of the attention most of the time. Do you love me? Why don’t you tell me you love me? Will he run if I use the L word? Are you sure you love him or are you in love with being IN LOVE?

Are you haunted by insecurity in your relationship? Insecurity is like a ghostly apparition that's always hanging around haunting you at any opportunity. Do you think your guy goes out of his way to make you question your self-worth or do you just feel insecure and question your own self-worth?

Creativity is a gift to be cherished, nurtured, shared and enjoyed. This concept is front and center right now with the untimely passing of Michael Jackson. His creativity in his music and signature dance style will Rock On and touch people far into the future. Are you nurturing your creative gifts?

Don't neglect your relationship with yourself. It's important to Believe in Yourself. Speak and think this Mantra for strength, self-support, and a self affirmation that you are an important piece in your own life’s mosaic and the mosaic of the universe – I BELIEVE in ME !!!