Do you know someone who is in love with their car, or their laptop or with the gym? Are you or someone you’re close to in love with a phone? Perhaps, being in love with inanimate things or places is not love, perhaps it’s an obsession. Is it healthy? One has to wonder about that.

What you see is what you get. Is it? So you see this hot looking guy or girl and think wow,that's the whole package! But is it? Is arrogance a part of the package? And if someone says they're looking for normal in a partner - are they? Arrogant man seeks normal woman - really? Why? As a fan?

Here's a little something to help you put things into perspective while you are trying to find your Christmas Spirit in the hectic moments of preparation for the holidays.

It is a logical assumption that most people like happy endings. So much of life is filled with difficulties we don’t get to experience as many happy endings as we would like. Perhaps that is why many people turn to stories about love and romance when they are searching for their own happy ending.

Are you a Lifetime Movie junkie? Do some of the characters remind you of yourself or someone you know? Do you think life imitates movies or do movies imitate life? What would the title of your Lifetime Movie be? Would it be upbeat and inspirational or a poor, poor pitiful me movie title?

If he's a liar - is he also a cheater at heart? We all know this guy. He’s a compulsive liar. He lies about everything. He's Pinocchio in disguise. There’s a lot of wisdom in the children's chant liar, liar, pants on fire. Is the guy you’re involved with a big fat liar?... and a cheater?

Karma can be explained and described in many ways. According to Dictionary.com in Hinduism and Buddhism it is seen as actions bringing upon oneself inevitable results, good or bad, in this life or in a reincarnated life. It is comparable to what goes around, comes around, fate, destiny and kismet.

Have you ever been to a Wedding where the Karma was so BAD that it felt like you should leave so you didn’t get burnt just being in the same room with the bride and groom? Some Weddings are an insult to marriage and Bad Karma is the Uninvited Guest at the Wedding AND in the bride and groom’s future.

BALANCE - what’s that? There are always so many bad things going on in life with a few good things sprinkled between them that it’s hard to realize that the best state of existence we can attain in our lives and our relationships is probably BALANCE.

Whether times are difficult or times are just status quo, there are just some days that your energy lags, your drive slows down and you really just want to Just Be!