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Donít Focus on Money Goals Right Now

If you havenít already read Who Moved My Cheese? An Amazing Way to Deal with Change in Your Work and in Your Life by Spencer Johnson, now is the perfect time.

Like thousands of others across the country, Iím looking for a job. Since the market has changed drastically in the last five years, Iím not even attempting to do this all alone. I recently signed up with three different nonprofit organizations that help people get jobs.

Last week during a mock group interview with one of the organizations, I met several professionals who had previously worked in the financial and legal fields in high profile, well paying positions. One woman had been with her company for more than 30 years, another had spent 20 years of her life with her previous employer. These ladies most definitely had ďcheeseĒ and were there that day because their jobs were gone. They now had to find new cheese.

In terms of working for a company, Iíve never risen as high on the food chain as these ladies. For the last 13 years as a writer/stay-at-home mother, Iíve pretty much worked part-time, entry-level jobs. Yet in the back of my mind, I felt this was temporary--just until the kids grew up. Once they were more independent, my non-writing career would take off. Or so I imagined. Of course I had no idea that the economy would tank by then.

So much has changed. Jobs have dwindled, people are losing their homes. Earlier this year Bloomberg.com reported that a record 2.87 million properties got notices of default, auction or repossession in 2010.

With so much economic loss happening I decided that while Iím looking for work, Iím going to simultaneously create and focus on goals that do not require having a job or money. This is my new cheese. Iíve always had extracurricular activities outside of workóand they were expensive. A $400 class on nutrition and fasting, gym memberships, out of town trips to conferences where I had to pay for transportation, food, lodging, a few new outfits etc.

These new goals are different. A glance at my current life list reveals more than 20 goals that do not cost a dime to fulfill. Many are internal. For example since Iím someone who tends to fear the unknown, I have a goal to ďbe open to the magic of the unexpected.Ē Some of my new goals are silly such as ďlive like a heroine in a life affirming chick lit novel.Ē The key is that the goal has to either be free or extremely low cost.

While Iím giving greater focus to non-material goals, I am keeping my money goals high on my life list. ďBuy a homeĒ is still at the top, but I wonít obsess or feel like a failure for not pursuing it right now. And thatís because I also want to ďsprint to the top of a lighthouse.Ē

This ďlight houseĒ goal will require carfare to the outer reaches of Brooklyn or even Long Island, but itís attainable and certainly wonít break the bank. New Thought writer, Elizabeth Jones Towne once wrote ďif you can't have what you want, then want what you can have, and use it to the best advantage.Ē

Iím very excited about my new non-material goals. When I read them over every day, my heart sings. The new cheese I found is delicious!

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