One would think that the world is horrifying enough, filled with brutality, war, terror and poverty, so why do we disguise ourselves as zombies and ghouls? However, this is precisely the point. When people feel frightened and stressed, they need to escape from reality and confront the fear of death in a controlled situation like watching a horror movie; then the lights come on and the audience leaves unscathed. Wearing a vampire or big bird costume helps us to laugh at the absurdity of life diluting the daily scary stuff in our personal lives.
You can get to know people better on Halloween. Its funny that we all tend to hide the authentic self by putting on different faces and even changing our manner of speech in daily dealings with others. How many times do we say yes when we want to say no? Then on Halloween we select a costume that holds a key to unlocking our true spirit.
Here are some Halloween costumes and what they reveal about the wearer:
- Vampires and zombies - wrestling with the fear of death, coping with energy vampires who rob you of time and space, or experiencing life with numbness like the living dead
- Dictators, presidential candidates the need for personal empowerment
- Witches and sorcerers magic is a great social equalizer, transforming a drab existence with wealth and comfort, the ability to transform
- Big Bird The spontaneous joy of childhood, releasing the free-spirited inner child who perceives innocence and goodness
- The naughty nurse, the submissive, or librarian unleashed sexual longing from the constraints of social/moral censorship
This year try downsizing by simplifying your costume with a creative homemade version. And hide the holiday candy, so that it is not out in the open, or if you do overindulge, consider performing an extra workout to compensate for the caloric intake. Halloween sets the pace for the holiday season soon to follow.
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