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How to Refresh a Stale Relationship - Take the Stale out of Stalemate

Summertime and the living is easy. We wear relaxed clothes and swim suits. The sun bathes us in warmth and awakens the romantic within. We turn to our significant others, give them a penetrating look; however, they ask if we are sick with a fever. Yes, we have a fever, a fiery craving for love and romance - we want to flee our mundane lives. The perfection and the ideals are out there for heroines and actresses- we’re not exactly chopped liver!

For concrete, fun and comprehensive tips,emotional tools, visualizations,and exercises to help you attract the love you want or refresh the mundane love you now have, please check out my e-book Light Up Your Love Life


What we need is a completely new life, a new way of relating to others and ourselves. Most importantly, we need to learn how to appreciate ourselves. We tend to look to others to stimulate us and drive happiness into our hearts. We remember that special kiss on the beach, that perfect day in the park or that last dance and hope to recapture the magic, recreate the experience again. However, perfect bliss is fleeting and always searching for it robs us of happiness. Living in the past or fantasizing about the future causes us to miss the special moment of the present. We imprison ourselves with these longings because we want to distract ourselves from our reality and the need to take personal action. Addiction to romance, like any addiction, might be caused by a lack of self-esteem, or in its extreme form, self-hatred.

Here’s how to have a romance with life:
For concrete, fun and comprehensive tips,emotional tools, visualizations,and exercises to help you attract the love you want or refresh the mundane love you now have, please check out my e-book Light Up Your Love Life

Debbie Mandel, MA is the author of Turn On Your Inner Light: Fitness for Body, Mind and Soul, a stress-reduction specialist, motivational speaker, a personal trainer and mind/body lecturer at Southampton College. She is the host of the weekly Turn On Your Inner Light Show on WHLI 1100AM in New York City , produces a weekly wellness newsletter, and has been featured on radio/ TV and print media. To learn more visit: www.turnonyourinnerlight.com



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