Ok, so he asked you out now what? Well that means that he thought you looked great and he wanted to get to know you better, so we don’t want to blow it on the first date with an outfit that falls short of his expectations of you. Let’s be realistic for just a moment, we know that men are stimulated visually this is probably why he asked you out to begin with but now he wants to know more about the real you. The first date is very instrumental in making sure you give him the right impression of not only who you are but how you can and will carry yourself.

Getting to “girlfriend status” is not as easy as it sounds because the one wrong outfit can derail the relationship train. When getting ready for your date it is essential to ask questions before you see him. Where are we going? What are we going to be doing? Lastly what will he be wearing? These questions are important because you wouldn’t want to dress for a softball game or bowling when he is taking you to a romantic restaurant and you want to try to coordinate the color you’re wearing with what he will be wearing (that doesn’t mean matching just complimenting).

One big issue is how much is too much to reveal. This is an issue because a lot of dresses shirts and blouses are either too low cut or too short. Now don’t get me wrong men like to see a little skin but his imagination will always want what he can’t see. You can do a chic pair of slacks and a colorful cardigan or you can knock him for a loop with a sexy pencil skirt with a beautiful blouse. Always be sure to highlight your best features so that you can work the night with no appearance apprehensions.

Always remember that you make the outfit but shoes make you look sexy in the outfit. Men love a woman in heels aside from the lift it gives your derriere it makes your legs look extraordinarily shapely and that is always a good thing. The accessories will make a great addition to your look taking you from all day conservative to a late night sex kitten.

A first date could always lead to more so be sure to be thinking about just how much skin you want to show the next time. Feeling sexy is a state of mind and on the first date you want to make the package as sexy as possible with out giving away all the goodies inside.

Always Keep it Simple and Sexy.