As I left I told her that she was the first person to treat my baby and me like my daughter and I had been treated when she was brand new. She claimed that it was easier for her to look past the diagnosis because she had been born with spina bifida herself, and her life was turning out just fine.
I had not noticed any physical signs of a disability while we had talked, and she said her diagnosis was very late because she did not have obvious symptoms, a blessing in some ways because she had all the opportunities and support she needed growing up as if she did not have a diagnosis at all. On the other hand, she did not have the intervention and support that might have helped with what she called 'some discomfort' related to spina bifida.
Most children with spina bifida are diagnosed at birth, and some, prenatally. Support groups and knowledgeable professionals are available where parents of newly diagnosed children can find information that might be relevant to their sons and daughters. There are several associated conditions that may be present in newborns with spina bifida that require treatment or intervention, including hydrocephalus, Chiari syndrome, bladder and bowel complications, and orthopedic problems.
Family Village Resources on Latex Allergies
http://www.familyvillage.wisc.edu/lib_latx.htm
Welcoming Babies with Spina Bifida by Linda Rowley
http://www.waisman.wisc.edu/~rowley/sb-kids/wbwsb.html
Prenatal surgery promises brighter future for babies with spina bifida
http://www.jsonline.com/sponsoredarticles/easyliving/139379893.html
Spina Bifida blog for web site updates, news articles, medical studies
http://spinabifida-news.blogspot.com/
Spina Bifida Research Blog
http://spina-bifida-bibliography.blogspot.com
Family Village Resources for Spina Bifida
http://www.familyvillage.wisc.edu/lib_spin.htm
Blaine Harrison, Rock/Indie Lead Singer of the Mystery Jets
http://www.disabilitynow.org.uk/news/news_dec_2006_003.htm
National Institute of Neurological Disorders
http://www.ninds.nih.gov/disorders/disorder_index.htm
Family Village Resources for Chiari Malformation
http://www.familyvillage.wisc.edu/lib_arnd.htm
Frequently Asked Questions - Conquer Chiari Website
http://www.conquerchiari.org/FAQ.htm
Univ of MO Information Chiari Type 1 Malformation
World Arnold Chiari Malformation Association
http://www.pressenter.com/~wacma
Finding Strollers, Walkers and Wheelchairs for Children
http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art9507.asp
Books on Spina Bifida at Amazon.com
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