Family relationships can sometimes be stressful around the holidays but the ties that bind families together last through time. Family ties bind lives and memories together and through the years the memories of the stresses and difficulties diminish and the cream rises to the surface to allow us the better memories of our family and special holidays shared. Thanksgiving is a good time to enjoy those cherished memories and to be thankful for the family ties that bind through time even though sometimes family relationships are as fragile as fine china.
Please allow me to share my short Thanksgiving holiday story, “Two Sets of China, One Family Graced, with you as my way to thank you for visiting my pages online and to wish you and your families strong ties and a Happy Thanksgiving!
TWO SETS OF CHINA ONE FAMILY GRACED
“Why do you want all of those dishes?”
“You’re not seriously asking me why I would want all of the Fine China that is being passed down to me from your Mother and your Aunt, now are you?”
“Well, yeah, I don’t even remember them using that China that often.”
“Yeah, you’re right about that fact; but I remember this one particular Thanksgiving that both sets of China were combined to accommodate both families. Now you know how some Holidays are nicer than other ones. Well that one was one of the nice ones.”
“OK, you know I’m happy if you’re happy. Let’s wash all these dishes and put them away.”
“OK, great, we’ll wash and dry them together and then I’ll put them away. “
I enjoyed the help offered but the China had evoked a wave of reminiscing that I felt the need to see through alone. So as I began to stack the plates carefully in the high cabinet in the kitchen I gave some thought to the fact that I was happy to be the beneficiary of the China, but as with any family heirloom handed down there is some sadness attached at the loss of the gift givers. But then the sadness passes and the memories attached to the gift take over the emotions. It was no different with the China and as I carefully put the pieces away I remembered that one specific Thanksgiving when both sets of China were combined to accommodate both families. Now, all families have their disagreeable days and thankfully, their picture perfect days when everything is just as it should be. This was one of those picture perfect days; it was a special day in a special family, framed forever in time and their history. Everyone was happy. We set the tables with the China and lace tablecloths and the good silverware and waited for the food to be ready. As the saying goes, a good time was had by all. Now I know that the China was not the reason the day was so special but it seemed to represent by its fragile nature the fragile memory of a wonderful moment in the history of a one in a million family. Because, indeed, everyone should realize that their family, even with all its edges, even those that can sometimes be sharp and brittle, is one in a million, because its yours and those special memories are as fragile as every piece of one or even two sets of China handed down from generation to generation.
As I put away the last dish I felt at peace and looked forward to setting the table for my family on Thanksgiving Day and hopefully for many holiday gatherings far into the future and was very grateful for this gift and for that special holiday celebrated oh so many years ago.
May we all have many blessings to be thankful for this Thanksgiving and every Thanksgiving. Happy Holidays!
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