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How to Finally Let Go of Guilt

Nowadays the recession is not only depleting our finances, but fueling guilty feelings like surviving a job layoff when a colleague or friend has been let go. You might be surprised to learn that it’s not just a crime or a lie that makes most of us feel guilty, rather happiness and fun. Consider the phrase: “I’m so happy that I just can’t stand it!” Perhaps you are afraid of being jinxed if you own your success/ happiness or do you keep a low profile because of that ubiquitous evil eye? Ever wonder why sex falls by the wayside for many people – it’s the guilt about experiencing pleasure.

Here are some things we typically feel guilty about: eating, sex, shopping, switching doctors and requesting our medical records, taking time out for the self, caregiving and saying no.

However, don’t feel guilty about feeling guilty! You have your work cut out for you shedding the guilt that was passed down to you from generations of parents and educators urging you to conform and be nice. It’s time to get rid of tribal beliefs which no longer resonate for you and make your own decisions. If life gives you lemons, you don’t have to make lemonade. Just throw away the lemons. When you feel guilty, have regular reasonable dialogues with yourself because guilt is illogical. Think about the famous lyrics, “Guilty feet ain’t got no rhythm.” This is a great metaphor because guilt disrupts our life rhythm.

Tips to let go of guilt:
For more information on managing your stress and reclaiming your life read my book, Addicted to Stress: A Woman's 7 Step Program to Reclaim Joy and Spontaneity in Life. To listen to archived radio shows with guest experts visit Turn On Your Inner Light Radio Show




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