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It’s being reviewed here because it’s a superb seminar on grief. How men and women handle loss differently. How some people avoid the issue, others act out, others run away. How chaos is the only thing that seems to make sense after a death of a loved one. How necessary it is to have a support system. How to grieve as a family. The importance of a good, honest friend. That unresolved grief never goes away until it’s addressed.
But all this isn’t clear until you think about it afterwards. Instead, you’re just watching a pleasant movie, with very real, pretty interesting characters. While there are a few moments things seem to drag, they don’t last long before you’re back into the story. And you do get caught up in the story; you do want to see what’s going to happen next. And again, it’s such a relief to be allowed to have one’s own honest emotions, rather than having them manipulated by music, camera angles, or lighting.
Not to suggest that it’s an emotional movie. It’s not a chick flick by any means. But nothing explodes, no guns are fired, nor are there car chases. So it’s not a guy flick, either. It really is a well done study of grief from the man’s point of view. This character is a big departure from others Owen has played. In an interview, he said that as a father in real life, he welcomed this chance to explore parenting in film.
Though Clive Owen has a fair resume of films, and has top billing for this one, he is not the star. The cast truly works as an ensemble, and very well.
No, the star here is director Scott Hicks. He gives each adult cast member time to shine. But it is the portrayals of the sons by George MacKay and Nicholas McAnulty where Hicks excels. You think you are watching seasoned professionals, until you realize neither boy is old enough yet to be seasoned. It is a special, rare talent that elicits such performances, and is able to capture them.
The Australian scenery is beautiful. Aussie native Hicks shows his pride of place.
If you allow yourself to think about the movie later, you may find information that can help you get on track with some of your own grief issues. If nothing else, it’s interesting to see you aren’t the only one who went crazy after a loss. Or you may find a way to finally help a friend who has been suffering.
Or you may find no socially redeeming characteristics in the film at all, rather just enjoyed a lovely story, had a few laughs.
This film is not being widely distributed. You may have to go across town to find it. Either way, it’s worth the trip.
Shalom.
