Guest Author - Elleise
Without a doubt, experiences mold our perceptions. If we have had acceptance and encouragement most of our lives, regardless of what we did, good or bad, a reality begins to form and in this world it's not unusual that the very things that should be accepted as good or right become penalized, especially when society is quite up to speed. If you are on the recieving end of being penalized for something that was quite natural and pure of heart, extreme measure can be taken to hide the essence and core of who you really are.
Some people, without even realizing it, come into this world with strong psychic abilities already developed. As a result a great deal of challenges can develop along with them, such as sleeping disorders and emotional discomfort. In relation to these experiences, resentment and insecurity over the very gifts that make them special can emerge causing them to retaliate by shutting these gifts down or par away their sensitivities into head of household or nurturing role within the family. Although this is an admirable role and a positive way to utilize sensitivities, as time goes by a void or lack of fulfillment can often surface leaving a more worldly or altruistic desire to reach others on a larger scale.
When this happens, transition occurs. It will feel as if it simply takes more energy to live a life that goes against your growing desires and who you really are and a choice becomes increasingly urgent to make in regards to this. Hopefully, if you have people around you, you will be supported in your efforts. This isnít always the case, however.
Some people can feel threatened, especially if they are dependent on you for taking care of their needs or are the center of your attention. If this is the case, you will most likely encounter resistance in the form of sarcasm and even guilt for taking time out of your regular schedule. Try to explain that although you will need some time for yourself, it doesnít mean the love you have anyone will be any less. You are simply bringing even more of what they most likely already sensed about you that made them want a friendship or fall in love with you to begin with. Allowing the freedom to explore more deeply this aspect of yourself in the safety and comfort of your supporters will prove to demonstrate your having even more energy, greater optimism and creativity in the life you already share together.
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