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What Do Columbus Day and Halloween Have In Common?

October is a month of self-discovery and fortifying personal identity. Columbus Day celebrates the discovery of America, the exploration of a new world and the forging of a national identity. Halloween celebrates individual identity with a costume to release a submerged fragment of personality Ė like the Marilyn Monroe within. Meanwhile in many areas of the country the leaves are falling, revealing tree architecture as the days are getting shorter and colder: This is the season to go inside (inward) with fewer distractions.

Columbus Day and Halloween share a dark side. Columbusí exploration and so-called discovery brought genocide to natives who had preceded him in this matter. Halloween unleashes the shadow self with party and costume themes of witches, ghouls and goblins Ė trick or treat. And donít forget the candy gluttony officially heralding the seasonal weight gain until New Yearís Day.

Identity is a complex matter, filled with contradictions. Successful people might feel like impostors, unworthy of their success unable to bask in the glow of their accomplishments, continuously striving to prove themselves. On the other hand when people own what they do, sometimes their friends and colleagues point out that they are bragging. Many try hard to fit in and blend, when actually discovering oneís identity is tied into seeing the self as separate and unique from others.

If you have lost your natural self, feeling like an artificial version, itís time to rediscover your identity. Use Columbus Day and Halloween to guide the way:

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