I recently talked with Wendy about the re-release of her novel "No Kidding," after it won an Honorable Mention Award for mainstream/literary fiction in Writer's Digest's 10th Annual Self-Published Book Awards. This is the second of a two-part interview with her.
Q: Do you think society is becoming more accepting of the child-free lifestyle? Or is there still a stigma associated with this choice?
A: I believe there is still a stigma associated with this choice. I think, in general, people are a little more considerate and arenít as likely to blurt out, "When are you going to have kids?" but thatís probably because of increased awareness about infertility problems. But if you say straight out that you just donít want to have children, I think most people think itís a bit strange. I have run into some people who, when they find out I donít want children, say, "Oh, I could never imagine my life without little Jason," as if Iím telling them they too shouldnít have had their kids, which couldnít be further from the truth.
Q: What advice would you give to women who are combating the stereotype that all women want to be moms?
A: Read my book and get some comfort!
Q: What characteristics do you share with your main character?
A: I, of course, share her main philosophy about not wanting kids, but I have to say that most of the book is pure fiction and not based on events in my life. I, for example, never had the battles with my mother about having a baby that Audrey has in "No Kidding." My parents were very accepting of my stance and werenít obsessed about having grandchildren.
Q: How was your book received when it first came out?
A: I got lots of great support from both childfree groups and individuals, for which Iím grateful. But I have had a number of romance readers, people who enjoyed "Bridget Jones," and readers with children who have also enjoyed the book. Being childfree is certainly one of the main themes but I think itís a book that many people can relate to.
Q: What are you working on now?
A: I am currently finishing up my second novel about three characters experiencing the exhilaration and emptiness that goes with the rejection of their own culture in favor of another, against the backdrop of the Japanese pop culture scene.
Also check out PART ONE of my interview with Wendy, and my BOOK REVIEW of "No Kidding!"