Guest Author - danielle barone
We are all the same in that we want to find love and be loved. We meet so many people and experience so many feelings and emotions in our life. All the while life is continuously teaching us about love.
Sometimes it makes sense to take a moment and remind ourselves what healthy love is, and ask do we have this kind of love in our lives?
It is my belief that you intuitively know whether the love you have in your life is healthy or unhealthy.
A good way to determine this is to simply ask yourself - how do you feel? Does your relationship help you to feel good? If the answer is yes, then you are on the right track. If the answer is no, then you may need to do some work to heal your life.
Since all of us are only human, capable of mistake, its natural that we would sometimes need to reaffirm in our minds what love really is.
Remember that healthy true love helps you to feel good. This kind of love comes from a place of connection, caring, healthy communication and nurturing of a relationship with another human being.
Healthy love is a mature kind of love, that develops when we appreciate and treasure another person for all the things they are, and in turn we can strongly feel that the same kind of appreciation is being reciprocated. To have this kind of love in ones life, is truly a blessing.
Healthy love heals the body, mind and soul. It is powerful and transforming. It is worth searching for and holding onto. You will know when you have this kind of love in your life, because you will feel wonderful.
Healthy love improves health and well being in so many ways. It is essential to create this kind of love in your life. You can do this by being loving and open to love, by being loveable, and by mentally visualizing the type of love you wish for.
Believe that you deserve true love and do not settle for anything less than the real thing. These simple steps can help you to magnetize healthy love into your life.