There are many types of love that we can feel for the people in our lives. The real question though, is that in these relationships, is the love healthy or unhealthy?

It is my belief that you intuitively know whether the love you have is healthy or unhealthy. If you are out of touch with with what you need on an inner level, as many of us are from time to time, then asking yourself simple questions can help you determine if the love in your life is good for you.

The simplest question to ask yourself is how do you feel? Does this relationship help you to feel good? If the answer is yes, then you are on the right track. If the answer is no, then you may need to do some work to heal your life.

Since all of us are only human, capable of mistake, its natural that we would sometimes need to reaffirm in our minds what love really is. In relationships, it is so easy to get entrenched with infatuation, feeling in love, compatibility, lust, etc. It is so easy to get sidetracked from the real thing.

Remember that healthy true love helps you to feel good. True love is a life affirming love. This kind of love comes from a place of connection, caring, healthy communication and nurturing of a relationship with another human being.

True love is a mature kind of love, that develops when we appreciate and treasure another person for all the things they are, and in turn we can strongly feel that the same kind of appreciation is being reciprocated. To have this kind of love in ones life, is truly a blessing.

Healthy love heals the body, mind and soul. It is powerful and transforming. It is worth searching for and holding onto. You will know when you have this kind of love in your life, because you will feel wonderful.

Healthy love improves health and well being in so many ways. It is essential to create this kind of love in your life. You can do this by being loving and open to love, by being loveable, and by mentally visualizing the type of love you wish for. Believe that you deserve true love and do not settle for anything less than the real thing. These simple steps can help you to magnetize healthy love into your life.