One of the common realities for women experiencing infertility is the pervasive depression that is so often unrecognized. Kelly Damron's story is typical of the journey shared by so many who suffer from infertility.

"Tiny Toes" is Damron's personal story of how infertility, treatment and the eventual birth of very premature twins impacted her personally as well as how it impacted her marriage. Damron does a good job of explaining the medical terms and events of her journey without interrupting the flow of her story.

Whether you are just beginning your infertility journey or whether you are experienced in navigating the emotional and medical mine field that is infertility, Damron's story will feel familiar. Her personal account is bound to make you feel less alone.

One of the most important messages Damron shares is that recognizing and treating depression is vital for healing from the scars of infertility and in preserving relationships. Women (and men) who are experiencing infertility often deny their feelings of depression or anger because they feel that they "should" be handling things better or that what they are experiencing is trivial. Often there is a feeling that "with so many bad things in the world, I should just be able to deal with this." Others deny their feelings because they are so strong that looking directly at the feelings is simply toomuch to deal with in the midst of handling infertility. Treating depression can make it easier to handle the ups and downs of infertility as well as improving the outcome of treatment. Alice Domar's work has shown that women who get help dealing with the grief and depression of infertility have a better chance of becoming pregnant.

Damron's story of the tension in her relationship with her husband and her withdrawal from friends and extended family are also a common experience with those who are experiencing the extreme grief that can accompany infertility.