How To Get Motivated When You Feel Down

How To Get Motivated When You Feel Down
Picture this scenario. You cannot feel worse in the dumps. There are a thousand things you should be doing but you have lost all your motivation. You do not know when it all disappeared or why. In fact, you cannot even remember how you ever used to acquire motivation in the first place.

No motivation - can things get any worse?

Unfortunately, however bad your situation is, things can always get worse. You need a way of stopping your life from spiralling out of control. However, you have no energy to tackle anything at all. You do not want to talk to anyone and you feel rotten about everything around you. You just want to stay under the covers and be safe in your cocoon.

You feel that just about everyone is better off than you – they are richer, healthier, wiser, more successful, happier, etc. Now a sense of impending doom looms across your body, mind, and spirit. You start to ask yourself if you are ever going to be able to get out of this rut.

In fact, the above is experienced by most people at some point in their lives. It is known by all sorts of names including mid-life crisis, middle-aged panic, professional life crisis, and so on. In essence, either something major has happened or you have been chipped away at, bit by bit, until you just cannot take any more.

So what do you do?

There are lots of tips in self-help books and on the internet for coping in a crisis but these tips are usually geared towards being able to get up and tackle things head-on. What if you feel paralyzed with all your worries, hang-ups, and fears?

When you are in that state, no amount of helpful tips and suggestions from family, friends, neighbours, work colleagues, and general well-wishers seem to help at all. Neither do they understand why you cannot simply "pull yourself out of your misery and sort yourself out."

Getting motivated - A simple self development tip

This may sound very trivial, but a tiny step to get you out of your doom is to JUST DO SOMETHING. It really does not matter what it is. In fact, the smaller the job the better. Examples could include:

* Polish a pair of shoes
* Wash up the plates that have piled up
* Chuck out that pile of old newspapers
* Throw away the dead flowers from a vase
* Wipe off the single strange mark from the fridge door
* Put away a garment that has been lying on a chair for months

As you are contemplating doing that job – which has now become an insurmountable hurdle in your mind – you start telling yourself things like "What's the point of that?" or "That won’t achieve anything!"

The knack is to ignore those comments and do it straight away, no matter how awful you feel. Tell yourself that in exactly one minute it will all be over and you can return to the comfort of your previous existence. Just ignore the chatter in your head and get 'something' done.

Why does this self development tip produce motivation?

Why does such a mundane activity help? When the brain realises that it is not being called on to do something difficult, it relaxes or stills and allows you to have more silence between all your worrying thoughts. Your mind is able to recharge and motivational thoughts have the space to creep in. Also, compared with everything you have not managed to action in the last few days, months, or even years, you have just achieved a huge amount!

You soon find that the little slither of motivation that has been allowed in is enough to make you consider doing another mundane activity. After all, that insurmountable job actually took less than the one minute you had expected. You may even get motivated to make a list of all the things you need to get done. Then at some point, without any warning, you feel able to approach people or books or technology around you for answers to your real problems, e.g., ways to kick start your career or to sort out your relationships.

How To Get Motivated - Self Development Summary

The simple act of doing something, no matter how small, and doing it immediately (without letting your mind chatter stop you) is a great self development tool. It helps to resurrect your motivation and to get back on track with life.

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