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Attracting Love and Romance This Valentine’s Day

I remember as a child hoping that I would receive a big red Valentine at school from a secret admirer, a cute boy; who am I kidding, any boy would have sufficed! When I didn’t get one, I wondered what was wrong with me and imagined that everyone else was basking in the red and white lace glory of their many cards. For many of us those uncertain times have not changed. Because we have a day designated for Amore, for those of us who are without a partner, have just lost a partner, closed the door on one, or live without romance at home, Valentine’s Day can be a painful reminder of what is missing in our lives and might trigger feelings of stress and inadequacy. That’s the problem. The solution is to go straight to the heart of the matter: Be your own Valentine! When you become your own Valentine, others will fall in love with you. In fact, you will have so many admirers that you will have to make choices.

Here are some suggestions for attracting love and romance to your life.Don’t dread Valentine’s Day this year. Make it work for you. Send yourself a card in the mail. Also, make up your mind to be reasonably happy. No one can compete with the movies or your fantasies!
Debbie Mandel, MA is the author of Turn On Your Inner Light: Fitness for Body, Mind and Soul, a stress-reduction specialist, motivational speaker, a personal trainer and mind/body lecturer at Southampton College. She is the host of the weekly Turn On Your Inner Light Show on WLIE 540AM in New York City , produces a weekly wellness newsletter, and has been featured on radio/ TV and print media. To learn more visit: www.turnonyourinnerlight.com

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