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Toddler Twins and Speech Development
When a family has twins, it is almost impossible not to measure one's developmental progress against the other's. Compounding this compulsive behavior is the fact that many twins lag behind their sibling in one or more areas, including speech development. As a result, it is very hard to accept the advice of a twin parent's peers when they all say, "just let things fall into place. He'll/she'll catch up eventually."
Between the ages of one and three years old, one twin may show a dramatic ability to speak clearly, which by comparison will make it seem like their sibling needs some help. In doing some research with twin parents who sought out help for a "lagging twin," assessments by Early Childhood Specialists were, for the most part, comforting. Many Speech Pathologists pointed out that several factors can put a child at risk for developmental delays, while being a twin was only one of them. In addition, an introverted personality will ultimately keep a child from practicing their speech as much as a social child would. Luckily for twins, an introverted twin will have the luxury of a built in best friend pushing their "introvertedness" away with every interaction. In a sense, that will actually be better than any therapist they don't know trying to push them into talking.
Since we don't think it's right to leave it up to our engaging twin to help her sister alone, we try to do our share to encourage language development whenever possible. In fact, we have compiled a list of ideas that anyone can use at home when the opportunity arises! They really work!
Step 1: Offer a "documentary" of daily activities while doing them
Providing commentary is an easy way to show your child the meaning of words. For example, when emptying the dishwasher, while the child is watching from a highchair or standing next to you, tell him what each item is. Say things like, "this is a white plate, or this is a fork and this is a spoon." Tell them what you are doing also; that you are washing the glass that was still dirty, or picking up the fork that fell on the floor. All children understand a lot more than we give them credit for, and much sooner than when they can speak for themselves!
Step 2: Read, and keep reading
Reading children's books to your twins is a great way to promote togetherness between them. Not only do the pictures make them want to look, but they will hear the correct way to use punctuation and learn exponential vocabulary skills that will be priceless when school starts. (It won't hurt that they will tune up on the proper way to make animal noises as well.) Are you a literature buff? Share those poems or stories with the children too! They may not understand every word of classic poems or early literature, but they will learn your rhythm and inflection skills, which will be needed later on.
Step 3: Show them the universe!
I called this the universe step because my favorite thing to do when we get out of the car after dark is have the twins find the moon and stars in the sky. I just happen to like the night sky, but this is just the beginning. Ask the babies what color food they are eating, or what they are eating; incorporate relevant adjectives whenever possible. If it's food, try sweet and sour; if you are outside showing them a truck, is it loud or quiet? Show them a ball to kick around-is it red? Is it round? You get the idea.
It may seem silly to some-but talking to your babies and toddlers as much as possible about the events surrounding them will only put them ahead in the race to understand life. We have all heard the expression, "a child's mind is like a sponge," but so many of us get this wonderful sponge, and then let it sit for a year or two before we start letting it work!
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