It seems like every newspaper you open delivers bad news about the economy and the state of the nation. The effects of businesses closing, friends and neighbors losing their jobs, and the fact that people really need to take a hard look at their current lifestyle is a sad reality. The depression of times like these can really hit home hard. Fortunately, you don’t need an expensive vacation or day at the spa to truly uncover the treasures you do have in your life right now. All you need is a good friend and some time for yourselves. Here are some ideas for creative and simple ways to cheer yourself up with a friend.

• Spring is around the corner and the weather is starting to warm up. Take a long walk with your friend in nature or in your community. Getting exercise and fresh air, especially with a friend is a great stress relief.
• When you spend the day with your friend, vow to make it a fun day – no fair bringing up sad news. If your friend truly needs a caring shoulder, you may want to reschedule your fun day and take care of her first.
• Go out for tea. Sipping warm tea over some friendly conversation is sure to lift the spirits. Go to your favorite local café or brew some right in your home.
• Make some homemade cookies. Creating something fun with your friend and enjoying the results is a great time. Make some extra dough and freeze it.
• Rent a classic fun chick flick. Pretty Woman, Steel Magnolias, Dirty Dancing, and the Joy Luck Club are just a few that come to mind. Pop some popcorn and just relax.
• What are your hobbies? Do you share any? Making jewelry, crafting soap, scrap booking, and gardening are just a few ideas that come to mind. Perhaps if money is an issue, you can pool your resources.
• Volunteer together. Non profit organizations are hurting in times like these. Soup kitchens always need extra hands. Habitat for Humanity is busy building houses for those who are less fortunate. Giving the gift of time together can do wonders to boost the spirits.

However you decide to spend time with your friend, make it fun and memorable. Then, try to make it a regular occurrence. You can then look forward to this time and know you will have a stress relief if days are looking gloomy. There is nothing better than a good meeting with a friend to warm the soul.