There are some elements of many activities that can be deemed dangerous and unfortunately, dating is no exception. Singles who are actively dating, particularly women, need to be wary of the potential dangers to which they might be exposed.

One of the biggest dangers that threaten modern day single women is the possibility of becoming date rape victims. Regardless of how it occurs, rape is a traumatic personal violation that has deep reaching and long lasting effects on its victim. Some women might even be inclined to feel somehow responsible for the attack, especially if they know their attacker or agreed to go out on a date with him. The truth is that there is no excuse for rape and that the only person who should be held accountable for it is the one who refused to take no for an answer.

If you believe you have been sexually victimized in any way, it is extremely important that you speak up about it. The first course of action should be to seek immediate medical attention. Most community hospitals are equipped with a rape center and trained health professionals that can make sure you receive all the help you need. It may be necessary to file a police report and advise the local authorities of whether or not you would like to press charges against the perpetrator.

As tempting as it may be to avoid pressing charges and confronting your attacker, you should carefully weigh out your options before making that decision. While going through the legal process will be difficult and sometimes embarrassing, making sure that your attacker is brought to justice may help to establish a much needed sense of closure. Yes, you certainly have already been through enough but that doesn’t mean you should let someone who hurt you get away with it.

From a psychological perspective, keeping the trauma of rape locked inside will only serve to strengthen its grip on your life. Those who openly confront and actively process their emotions are more likely to recover some semblance of normalcy in their daily lives. The effects of rape are profound and can influence every aspect of its victim’s lives, especially with regard to physical relationships and intimacy. However, you can combat these effects by working with trained counselors and resolving to survive your attack and overcome it.

A solid support system is an invaluable tool when dealing with the effects of date rape. Don’t be afraid to confide in close friends and family members who can be there to support you through the trying times ahead.