Although I don’t believe that going to the movies is the ideal activity for a first date, it does seem to be the popular choice for singles. The reason why I don’t think that the movies is a good place for a first date is because it leaves very little room for meaningful discussion, making it difficult to get to know a whole lot about each other. Perhaps that is precisely what makes movie dates so appealing to nervous daters who want to minimize the risk of running into those dreaded awkward silences that first dates are so notorious for. Unfortunately, while a movie may serve to make silence a little bit more bearable, sitting close to a virtual stranger in a dark room for a couple of hours can be a bit awkward in and of itself. So if you are planning to catch a flick with a new romantic interest and want to make sure that your first date is successful enough to pave the way for a second, then consider some of the following suggestions to help you survive your first date at the movies.

* Ask your date to choose the movie that he/she would like to see. Not only will this increase the chances that your date will have a good time but it will also help you to get an idea about his/her interests.

* Purchase tickets ahead of time and pick them up at the box office. This way you can pay for your date’s entrance, guarantee your spaces, and drastically reduce the wait time at the ticket counter, which will also help you to avoid potentially awkward moments standing in line. If you can’t afford to pay for your date’s entrance, then you probably shouldn’t be asking anyone out.

* Once you arrive at the theater, head straight to the concession counter and buy something for you both to nibble on during the film. Be sure to ask your date what his/her favorite goodies are and if you both enjoy the same type of beverage, order the largest size and get two straws.

* Allow your date to select the seating arrangements.

* Before the movie starts, strike up some conversation by asking your date questions that will allow you to get to know more about him/her. If you feel like you are stuck or are unsure about what to say, you can always talk about other movies you may have seen with the actors in the feature film or what you may have heard about the movie you are about to watch.

* A little affection goes a long way so if the mood feels right while you are watching the movie, hold your date’s hand and be sure to shoot him/her a few smiles here and there. Don’t try to push it though, just be natural.

* If sparks are flying and you don’t want the date to end with the movie, suggest going out for ice cream afterward. But if you don’t want to push your luck, just keep it simple by sharing what you thought of the movie and calling it a night.

Ending a first date is easily the most awkward part of the night since it is hard to be sure whether or not a good-night kiss would be appropriate or even welcomed. Although there is no way to know for sure if you are on the same page, your best bet is to simply go with your gut and let the mood guide you but try not to take it too far on the first date, especially if you hope to have a second.