There comes a time when you have to look at the world around you and notice change. In growing notice how your achievements as a growing girl makes a difference is amazing. Now imagine your achievements as a lady with the character you have. Parents have an amazing ability to help you reach your goals. But it has to be done in team effort. Girls live free and laugh hard. A lady makes changes and statements with style. See how the two meet and make history in the process.

A girl will enjoy life so much that she will forget that she actually has a purpose – which is to make a difference. Girl’s should lead by example as well as set good examples. No girl is alike. Life is what she makes it so let’s see how we can let her enjoy being the best her. And help her create journeys in her life that will change the world as we know it.

A lady is one who carries herself with class, elegance, and respect for herself and others. A lady is someone who fought so hard to get a membership in the boy’s club. We are in a new era. A time where change is happening! It’s time for girl’s to make a change in the way the world views her. Let’s recreate and revise our generation’s vision of what a girl, a daughter, a women or lady is.

Let’s help girls see that they don’t have to adapt to boys behaviors just because they have a membership in the boys club. Such behaviors like fighting, cursing, bullying, or even crime are all unacceptable. Let’s start with these tips.

Take care of yourself. Make sure your daughter grooms herself regularly. She should bath daily, moisturize her skill daily, wash her hair and condition it. Taking care of herself will make her feel good about herself.

Talk about things that concern you. Encourage your daughter to talk about relationships, friendships and parental challenges that she may be having. It’s important that she can speak with you openly about her concerns. This is the part where you the parent listen without judging. This is where you take her concerns and think about them and see how you can work towards a change.

Learn yourself. It’s important that she get to know herself. Have her write down things about herself that she wants to change inside and out. Inform her that she only has one life and only she can change it. Have her write down goals every now and then on life and her expectations of it.

Get an endorphin rush. Staying active and moving the body is important to girls. When you’re moving you get endorphins flowing in the blood. This is the stuff that’s really responsible for our feelings of satisfaction or excitement – it’s a chemical reaction. She doesn’t have to exercise, just stay active. She can dance, jump, run, walk, or even play – staying active is the key.

Thinking like a girl is all about being the best you. Understanding who you are and making choices that’s right for you. Acting like a lady is about showing that you have the ability to be a girl in a man’s world with style – your style. It’s about making a difference without the bad behaviors. It's about making history. It’s also about having a good team to help you get there – support is the key! Even I have a great team in the Bellaonline organization!

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