Death is part of the natural cycle of life for human beings, plants and animals. In Tarot, the death card symbolizes the end of a phase or cycle and heralds new beginnings. This is often the case in dreams.
If you dream of the loss of your partner, analyze whether your relationship is in need of rescue or renewal. You may have hidden fears about losing your lover, or they may be drawing away from you. If you are already aware of problems, you may need to reflect upon whether you want to revive it or move on. If the person who died in your dream is a friend or family member, take a look at whether there are things that need to be said or at whether you need to spend more time with that person. Events like September 11 have shown us that we never know what the day will bring. We can not be reminded too often that life is short and unpredictable. You may be working too hard and missing precious time with those you love. Your dream may be an important signal to slow down and spend time with those you love most.
Dreams of death may be preparing you for inevitable end of a marriage or career. In these dreams, death is symbolic and it is unlikely that death will actually occur. The individual who passed on in your dream may symbolize an aspect of yourself that needs to be dealt with. For instance, dreaming of the death of your mother may express a fear that you are losing identity with your maternal nature. Your own death may symbolize a desire to be free of a situation. Look at the context to determine the meaning of your dream.
Dreams of loved ones who have passed on are widely reported and are a natural part of the grieving process. Dream research suggests that these dreams are actual visits from the departed and a means that the subconscious employs to help us heal. These dreams can occur immediately after their death or several years later. Cherish each one as a special gift. When these dreams occur, it may be helpful to plan a remembrance ritual for your deceased loved one. It can be as simple as planting their favorite flower or tree or lighting a candle. You might consider remembering them by visiting a place you used to go together or doing something you'd planned to do together but weren't able to. Performing this type of ritual regularly on a holiday, birthday or anniversary can bring comfort and healing. Our loved ones may leave this earth, but they never leave our hearts.
In loving memory of Dustin Rhoades, 1995-2004 and
my beloved husband, Joe William Shed, Jr., 1965-2005.
Parthena Black is a professional social worker and ordained minister with experience in tarot and runes. For private spiritual counseling and intuitive readings via e-mail, please visit her at oymygoddess.com.
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