g Text Version
Beauty & Self
Books & Music
Food & Wine
Health & Fitness
Hobbies & Crafts
Home & Garden
News & Politics
Religion & Spirituality
Travel & Culture
TV & Movies

Bored? Games!
Take a Quiz
Rate My Photo

Cooking for Kids
Women's Fashion
Small Office/Home Office

All times in EST

Clairvoyance: 08:00 PM

Full Schedule
g Stress Management Site

BellaOnline's Stress Management Editor


The Super Bowl Can Lead to Super Love

Women who are not into football often dread the Super Bowl. They might feel
  • Intimidated by the logistics of the game
  • Jealous of all the attention the game gets from him
  • The need to leave the house or stay in the kitchen preparing snacks
However, football is actually a sexy game.
Consider this game, as the ritual end to the entire football season and so, a celebration in nod of Valentineís Day. In other words, a good relationship is based on reciprocity. You make the game a great experience for him and he will do the same for you on V-Day

How to use the Super Bowl as an opportunity for Super Love:
  • Donít stand naked in front of the TV to distract him. Any kind of jealousy, even of a football game, is a turn-off to him. Anyway, you will lose this battle when he tells you to move out of the way and not even notice that you are naked. Give him a clear pass to watch without demanding any attention.
  • The way to a manís heart is through meat and fat. This kind of diet soothes his soul the same way ice-cream and carbs do for yours. However, you are in control here and donít have to clog his arteries. Clogged arteries donít lead to good sex. You can make heroes with lean meats, use mustard instead of mayo, sneak in some field greens, sliced tomatoes, onions, roasted peppers, avocado and layer with different low-fat cheese slices on robust multi-grain bread. Mac and Cheese can be made with multi-grain pasta and low-fat cheeses. He wonít even notice the pasta is multi-grain as the cheese will cover it. There are healthy dipping options which donít compromise taste like reduced sodium baked tortilla chips, or toasted pita slices Ė fresh spicy salsa as in Trader Joeís version is great. Chicken and steak kebobs can replace chicken wings. You donít have to compromise on flavor for a food fest. Just donít discuss the healthy choice.
  • The game will rev up his testosterone, so use it to your advantage. Donít forget he will be viewing many steamy commercials! Make sure you dress for success after the game to balance all that testosterone with some estrogen. Stage the bedroom and feel free to use sexy football terms like tight end, touch down, wide receiver, and roughing the kicker. This game is won by inches!
  • Even if you know nothing about football, bet on one of the teams. The prize is that the winner gets his sexual fantasy fulfilled. This adds more excitement to the game for both of you.

For more information on managing your stress and reclaiming your life read my book, Addicted to Stress: A Woman's 7 Step Program to Reclaim Joy and Spontaneity in Life. To listen to archived radio shows with guest experts visit Turn On Your Inner Light Radio Show

Add The+Super+Bowl+Can+Lead+to+Super+Love to Twitter Add The+Super+Bowl+Can+Lead+to+Super+Love to Facebook Add The+Super+Bowl+Can+Lead+to+Super+Love to MySpace Add The+Super+Bowl+Can+Lead+to+Super+Love to Del.icio.us Digg The+Super+Bowl+Can+Lead+to+Super+Love Add The+Super+Bowl+Can+Lead+to+Super+Love to Yahoo My Web Add The+Super+Bowl+Can+Lead+to+Super+Love to Google Bookmarks Add The+Super+Bowl+Can+Lead+to+Super+Love to Stumbleupon Add The+Super+Bowl+Can+Lead+to+Super+Love to Reddit

RSS | Related Articles | Editor's Picks Articles | Top Ten Articles | Previous Features | Site Map

For FREE email updates, subscribe to the Stress Management Newsletter

Past Issues

Printer Friendly
tell friend
Tell a Friend
Email Editor

Content copyright © 2015 by Debbie Mandel. All rights reserved.
This content was written by Debbie Mandel. If you wish to use this content in any manner, you need written permission. Contact Debbie Mandel for details.


g features
To Smile Yet Be Depressed

The Best RX For A Healthy Life

How To Stop An Argument In Its Tracks

Archives | Site Map


Past Issues

Less than Monthly

BellaOnline on Facebook

| About BellaOnline | Privacy Policy | Advertising | Become an Editor |
Website copyright © 2016 Minerva WebWorks LLC. All rights reserved.

BellaOnline Editor