I'm always looking for books that go beyond the typical dream dictionary, and Dreams and Relationships fits that criteria. Author Nicholas Heyneman is a clinical psychologist specializing in sleep, dreams and relationship therapy. He is also a university professor and author of numerous publications and is thus well qualified to write on this topic.
What attracted me to the book initially was that it is not the obligatory dream dictionary. Instead, this is an interactive book that provides exercises that couples can do together to identify and solve problems and strengthen their relationships by developing the ability to gain insight through their dreams. The techniques given can also be applied to relationships with colleagues, friends and other family members, all of whom have strong roles in our lives. The book does contain a "Dream Oracle" section at the end, which lists dream symbols that pertain to relationships.
In the early chapters, Hyneman guides us on how to differentiate meaningful dreams from the insignificant ones and provides an exercise to help you "lift the lid on interpretation." He also provides useful exercises for recalling our dreams. Two of the largest sections, "The Dream Path of Love" and "Working Together" contain valuable information and exercises that can do much to improve communication, understand your emotions and nurture your bond with your partner. Exercises such as "The Dream Pillow Book" could heat things up in the bedroom as well!
This book goes far beyond a list of symbols and definitions. The author teaches you how to connect with the symbolism of your dreams. If you are serious about learning how to interpret your dreams and apply them to your life, Dreams and Relationships is recommended reading. The book is full of useful information and techniques to develop your intuitive abilities. Simply written and beautifully illustrated, this is an excellent book for beginners. Dreams and Relationships would also make a lovely wedding or anniversary gift for dream conscious couples.
May all your dreams come true!
Parthena Black is a professional social worker and ordained minister with experience in tarot and runes. For private spiritual counseling and intuitive readings via e-mail, please visit her at oymygoddess.com.
