This will be my second marriage but the first for my fiancé. How do I make the wedding ceremony and reception something he would enjoy without breaking the second wedding rules I have to follow? What colors can I wear?

Gretchen

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Hi Gretchen,

Weddings are a celebration of relationships. This wedding is a celebration of the relationship between you and your fiance. It doesn't matter that you have been married before. Plan the wedding that the two of you want to share. The size of the wedding, color of your dress, etc. do not matter. It is absolutely your decision.

Thanks for writing,
Mackenzie

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