Guest Author - Elleise
Whether it’s time to press on or find inspiration in that second honeymoon, approaching the situation with a twist can help in making the best decision possible.
When difficulties in romance find their way into the lives of people who want nothing more than the best for everyone, not only can it can leave people wondering whether or not they may have successful relationships of their own, but also questioning the quality of who and what they are.
Often people say there are two sides to every story. I say there are three; both sides and the truth. But, when you engage inside any dilemma, those seemingly apparent little issues can feel like impossible feats of destination!
Although many of us can be gifted at what we do in the everyday, in dealing with relationships, each can find struggles pushing outside of the box in terms of fixing what it is that's going wrong. When we find ourselves swimming up this particular stream, it is important to keep an even perspective, just as we would anything else that represents our truest passions in life!
Whether we are the ones struggling to obtain more from the relationship or the person ready to throw up their hands in frustration, it is important to respect, as well as try to understand both sides of the relationship including personal inventory and the personality of the relationship itself.
If a relationship begins to show deterioration or repetitive signs of wear and tear, asking yourself what ignited the attraction in the first place can be, and usually is, the best place to start. If there was some form of healing and rescue in the beginning, the difficulties can be attributed to that portion of the relationship coming to an end. As has always been the natural process of life, movement including going forward once we begin to heal is a part of that same success.
Secondly, if we were attracted to a person’s independence and apparent self-confidence from the start, it is not likely this attribute is going to die away anytime in the near or distant future. Even the best of relationships, in terms of personality, tend to become even more enhanced as longevity and security begins to settle in.
On a clairvoyant note, if you happen to specifically find yourself with someone dedicated to holistic services or any other field of healing, it is important to remember that this calling tends to march to a different tune in life. Respecting after 7 years what was endearing in the first few months can be “key” in seeing you through any difficulties you might have; What may be lacking attention in the household perimeter will most likely have to do with the same preoccupation that led the person to the ministry to begin with.
Finally, changes developing on the earth’s front porch are affecting everyone! Though we may swap players at the gameboard remember many of the same rules are still going to apply.
When we have to call it quits trying to remember the simplicity in effort we could experience in being kind, as we would appreciate that same kindness in return, may be just that miraculous tincture the three-sided story needs to go on the best it can.