Guest Author - Sunniej Jackson

The Holiday Season is in high gear and is a very joyous time for some and a very sad time for others. At this time of the year it does not matter what side of the fence you are on you are not alone. Holidays are about families, friends, traditions and memories and not all of us are with our loved ones or able to be with them for lots of reasons. Take the time to remember our missing loved ones with good memories. Light a candle to guide the way for those who are lost and missing. This is a great time to reach out to those around us and give of ourselves to those in need to share our good fortune by providing emotional or economical support (i.e. donating money, food, gifts or service).

All of us know someone less fortunate than ourselves so let’s share what we have no matter how small. If we all contribute in our own way we will make a major impact for many. There are many agencies and organizations that provide services to collect and disburse the offerings we provide to them to make it quite simple to get involved and make your contribution.

Let’s all remember also that the gift of kindness is free. This is something we should give liberally everyday to everyone who crosses our paths. If you are holding a grudge against someone now is a great time to release it and let the person know if possible.

Let’s teach our children that love, kindness and respect are gifts we can give to each other. It’s not just the material things that make us happy. There are lots of lost children who do not have this instilled in them at an early age and pay for it the rest of their lives. Let’s talk to our children about the great opportunity they have right now to contribute positively to society by donating some of their time to soup kitchens or agencies involved in distributing gifts and food. Maybe they can offer the elderly assistance in preparing for the holidays and the new year by doing small tasks. Let’s make sure to lead by example.

What do you and your family have planned? Why not start a new holiday tradition. There is no better time than now. If you don’t want to get involved with an organization, think about who you know in your neighborhood, your church, your job or your children’s school that can use some help at this time of year. Invite someone who would be alone to be part of your family’s festivities or drop off a food or gift basket to them. Take a few minutes to visit those who are sick or shut in. You will be amazed at how good you will feel from your acts of kindness.

Let’s make sure to give the gift of love to one another. Remember it is very inexpensive – it’s free.

Happy Holidays to you and yours. Join me in looking forward to a year full of love, kindness and respect for all. Remember to keep the candle lit, physically or in our hearts, for those that are lost all year long.