Ten to Twelve Months Before The Day
This is a quick checklist for the tenth to twelfth month before the wedding. This can also be worked on farther in advance than twelve months; this is just a guideline for the typical least amount of time. They are in no order of importance, but budget and guest list are the two top items to me. I believe budget determines guest list and guest list determines budget.
Announce your engagement to family and friends, newspapers, invitations, word of mouth.
Arrange for both families to meet. Even if they know each other, I recommend all going out or dinner to get acquainted.
Have an engagement party, if you wish.
Decide on the theme of the wedding, as well as whether it will be formal, informal etc.
Decide on whether to include ethnic wedding traditions, or create new ideas that may turn into traditions
Set your wedding budget (most important)
Start creating your guest list
Set the wedding day and time. This may depend on your caterer of choice, the reception hall and the church
Decide on whether to have a religious or non-religious ceremony
Choose and book your wedding officiant
Choose your maid of honor, bridesmaids, best man and groomsmen
Choose and book your ceremony and reception locations
Meet with caterers and taste samples, ask if they do wedding cakes as well, sometimes it lowers the cost per person if the caterer has an in house baker.
If your caterer does not have a baker, arrange to meet a baker and taste samples of wedding cakes
Meet with florists and decide on what kind of flowers you would like as well as whether to mix faux and real
Decide if you are having a live band or a DJ
Meet with photographers and look over their portfolios
If you are having a DVD done, talk to professionals and get pricing references and samples of their work. Book them if you like the product.
I think this is a great start to a basic list. If you have just got engaged, these are the areas to concentrate on. This is Sandra Sable signing off for now, until next time, lets talk weddings.
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