The Santa Ana winds were fierce this week, rattling our windows and cracking our beloved avocado tree. We had scheduled a tree trimmer to come next week. If we trimmed this week, the tree might have been spared. Ah, regrets!

Life is like that. We postpone giving necessary attention to what matters and then it is too late to save what could have been saved.

Do something today to make your marriage better. In this way, you'll have no regrets.

Here's the latest article from the Marriage site at BellaOnline.com, along with a simple quiz that could help you decide if you're better off with him or without him:


Reasons to Stay Married
The grass always looks greener on the other side of the fence, but here is what you can gain by staying put.

http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art18851.asp

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http://forums.bellaonline.com/ubbthreads.php?ubb=postlist&Board=37


Am I Better Off Without Him? Quiz
Should you keep working on your marriage or it is time to ditch him? Higher scores indicate that you could be better off with him.

http://www.bellaonline.com/misc/quiz/quizdtl443




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Lori Phillips, Marriage Editor
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