When you live in close, constant contact with another person, the occasional conflict is inevitable. Resolving a conflict can be elusive if you play the blame game. Do you play the blame game?

Kids often engage in blame to avoid the rap. Parents demand to know, "Who started it?" When you're an adult, it no longer matters who started what. You just want resolution. It should be the same when it comes to your marital disagreements.

Here's the latest article from the Marriage site at BellaOnline.com.

Stop the Blame Game
Our sense of fairness demands that we get to the source of trouble. Here’s how to stop playing the blame game in your marriage.

http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art4276.asp

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Blissfully,

Lori Phillips, Marriage Editor
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