Holding a stubborn attitude of "I'm going to do it my way, no matter what you say!" is a setup that does not leave room to consider all the possibilities.

An "attitude" is like walking along a narrow path with tall trees hemming in the sides.

While considering a variety of possibilities gives a wide-open view.

Picking from many choices means less chance of frustration. Small trials and fixes are much easier to take, then having to accept a big frustration all at once from having stuck to a "stubborn attitude."

Replacing an attitude of "my way or no way" with "let me see all the choices," leads to learning and accomplishing step by step, avoiding the frustration or anger of a big failure!

Step by step along the way,
From little choices every day.

More on anger management for kids

1. Instant Anger Release Method
2. Walking Off Angry Feelings
3. When Anger Can Be Useful
4. Practicing Good Habits
5. Replacing a Stubborn Attitude

Ebook including this series

Anger Management Meditations
Series of 16 topics with meditations for teens and adults to understand more about anger's grip and reclaim inner peace, and 5 practical topics for kids to get beyond anger. 32 pages.


Article and photo credit - Susan Kramer

Disclaimer: This article is written from a spiritual point of view. For mental health issues consult a licensed therapist.