What Is an Open Adoption?
The majority of adoptions now have some degree of openness. To be considered an “open adoption,” birth and adoptive families must have ongoing contact with each other. They usually meet prior to the adoption – with some birth parents opting to include adoptive parents in doctor’s appointments, ultrasounds and even in the delivery room. Others choose to keep those intimate moments private, but still want to get to know the family that is adopting their baby. After placement, many families keep in touch through phone calls, visits, emails and letters. It all depends on the preferences and comfort level of both the birth parents and adoptive parents.
Most adoptions fall into one of three categories. To give you a better understanding of what to expect, here are some descriptions.
Open Adoption – Birth parents and adoptive parents meet prior to the adoption. Many form friendships and come to think of each other as extended family. After the adoption, they stay in contact through phones calls and visits. The amount of contact varies, with some families visiting only occasionally and others more frequently.
Semi-Open Adoption – Some contact between the two families. They may meet prior to the adoption. After adoption, they may exchange letters and photos through a third party.
Closed Adoption – No contact between birth parents and adoptive parents. Neither party receives a last name, address, phone number, email address or any other identifying information. They never speak, and no letters or photos are exchanged through a third party.
Whether you are planning to adopt a baby or are considering placing your child for adoption, it’s important to understand what open adoption is and be sure to choose what is best for you and your family. Never settle for a situation that feels uncomfortable. The best adoption matches are those that are approached with honesty, good communication and a clear understanding of expectations.
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