Learning what it means to be truthful is an important social skill for kids of all abilities, in order to gain respect amongst peers and adults, alike.
Before practicing telling the truth, kids need to learn about the concept. And, as they grow their perceptions will probably shift and refine to be able to act with greater integrity and truthfulness.
So, this is one social skill that is an ongoing process - learning and practicing day to day through experience in living.
I've found a good basis for teaching kids about truthfulness is to encourage them to report their deeds accurately. The more often kids can accurately describe what is going on, the clearer their perception of truthfulness becomes.
When a child is caught not being truthful it should be pointed out that someone may be blamed that is not at fault. And this leaves the innocent person feeling bad and unjustly treated.
Ask if this is a way the child would ever want to feel. If the answer is no, a good point is made in explaining the importance of reporting truthfully.
If the child tries to justify not being truthful, take the time to point out that they may be hurting someone else.
Kids learn through our example and trial and error. The more often we catch an untruth and turn the child to face their action the less likely they will be untruthful in the future.
Bottom line with truthfulness is to be the living example - children may be watching, listening and learning how to live from you.
"Clearest truth gradually perceived
By striving to upgrade its perception."
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Article by Susan Kramer
