How can Moms tell the difference between regular childhood issues and childhood depression?

More and more of our children suffer from this sneaky illness that can crop up in any family.

It's important that Moms know how to recognize the signs of childhood depression. Here are some important signs:

* Your child may look pale or "under the weather.”

* He or she is listless or not interested in normal, pleasurable activities that were of interest previously.

* Your child cries easily or is unusually irritable.

* Grades may begin to slide.

* A normally sociable child loses interest in friends and stays away from people, maybe spending more time in his or her room.

* Your child may be overly tired OR not able to sleep.

* The child loses interest in appearance, personal hygiene, wants to stay in pajamas all the time.

* Self-esteem plummets. Parents may hear statements such as, "I hate myself." "Nobody cares." "I wish I hadn't been born." "Nobody likes me--I'm a loser."

Tips:

While childhood and adolescence are normally trying times, if you see three or more of these symptoms for more than two weeks, make an appointment with your family doctor.

Make sure that the doctor listens to your child. If the doctor is intimidating, your child won't be successful with treatment. If necessary, find another doctor who is willing to listen to yours and your child's concerns.

If the doctor prescribes medication, make sure that your child takes it every day, even when beginning to feel better. Taking medication for depression is like watering a plant. You don't stop watering it when it blooms. Medication may not be a lifelong necessity, but it IS necessary to make sure that the issue is resolved before stopping it. This should always be done with your doctor's guidance.

Provide your support by listening carefully and taking your child seriously. If a therapist is needed, make sure to support your child's participation and respect your child's privacy.