Halloween can be a fun day but it is increasingly important that parents, teachers and friends be on the lookout for kids' safety, especially if they are challenged.

If your kids don't want to dress up maybe they'd like painted makeup. A spider face can be drawn on with grease paint and with the addition of a sweat suit, there you have it. It could even be a black widow spider.

Another way some of my kids participated in Halloween was to stay home and give out the treats when the doorbell rang. They enjoyed this time as it made them feel important to be distributing the candy.

If you go trick or treating how about walking with your kids. Depending on their ages and abilities you can wait at the street edge of the sidewalk for the independent ones. For the younger kids and those needing guidance you can walk up to the front door, ring the bell and then stand behind the kids while they say "trick or treat;" you could even say it if they are shy or not comfortable with their communication skills.

It's good to remind the kids that houses with their front door light on are the ones distributing treats. And, that if the house is dark, there will be plenty more with the light on.

Know the neighborhood you're walking through. You don't want to get into trouble with unfriendly people. Going out as part of a group of people you know is safest and the most fun.

Younger kids may still need to ride in the stroller and that is okay. In a year or two they'll be running ahead house to house.

Walk on streets that are lit, street lights are the best, and carry a personal flashlight to watch ahead. Take off masks while walking; it's more important to be able to see properly than hide who you really are.

When home check over all the treats carefully before indulging.

Article by Susan Kramer

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