Guest Author - Pam Garlick

I am finding the above titled book, by R.K. Relan difficult to review. It was not the typical self-help book one would expect about learning how to find true love. However, I believe the writer had some very insightful things to say in this book.

Unfortunately, it became a struggle to read, partly because of the redundancy of the writer as he strived to make many of his points. Also, one could say I got more than I bargained for, far more than I was ready for. – I felt as though I should have acquired a degree for reading this book, yet I’m uncertain in what that degree would be.

Still, Relan made some very valid points, in which I wholeheartedly agree.

First, a healthier woman will make better choices in her life. That can mean both physically and psychologically more healthy. These choices also include finding her one true love in life, which is the focus of this book.

I also agree with another point the writer makes that springs off the first; that a woman who is treated with love and cared for properly when pregnant, will have a healthier baby. And because of that her baby will live a healthier life. To prove this theory Relan goes into a lengthy discussion of DNA, which was far over my head.

While I agree with the basic theory in this, I personally would not go as far as Relan in saying that this child would grow up free of most diseases, including Cancer. For this theory to be proven, one would have to study several generations of multiple families, all born of loved and cared for mothers.

Relan also goes into a very lengthy discussion of “Primal Therapy”, an intense process developed by Arthur Janov, where people are taken back to a time they may have experienced something so traumatic their mind repressed the memories to protect them from the pain. The therapy assists the person in regaining those memories so that they can feel the pain and learn to deal with it.

Since much of this book is based on Janov’s work, and the writer’s experience in going through Primal Therapy, it would pay one to search the Internet for more information on the subject before purchasing this book. There are some good articles about it, as well as links Janov’s own sites.

Although I read the women’s edition of this book, there are also a men’s edition, teenage girl’s edition and teenage boy’s edition, plus other books available by this author.

ISBN: 1 - 933739 - 002
RKR Publishing
$19.69 plus S/H

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