g Text Version
Beauty & Self
Books & Music
Food & Wine
Health & Fitness
Hobbies & Crafts
Home & Garden
News & Politics
Religion & Spirituality
Travel & Culture
TV & Movies

Bored? Games!
Take a Quiz
Rate My Photo

Natural Living
Folklore and Mythology
Distance Learning

All times in EST

Full Schedule
g Life Coaching Site

BellaOnline's Life Coaching Editor


Never Be Late Again

Today is my day off from work and I needed to wash clothes. There are three laundromats in the area I can use. Two close around 7 pm and the one furthest away stays open until after 9 pm. Even though I had more than twelve hours to get this chore done, I got up and did the work first thing. By 9:30 am I was finished.

I canít remember the last time I had to go all the way to the laundromat that closes late because Iíve made it a point to always be earlyówith everything. One of my girlfriends from high school loves to tease me about how late I used to be when we were kids. The stories are amusing but itís almost like sheís talking about a different person. Today being early is one of my most treasured skills. From 2001-2005, I had a job where I punched a time clock. All those years I was late only once and that was because a train derailed. I know how to be on time.

Here are some tips for those who have a goal to ďNever be late again.Ē

Develop a sense of urgency. If you are lackadaisical about being on time, then chances are youíre often late. Respect your time. Honor your time. Watch your time all of the time. Today I had twelve hours to get my laundry done, but you would have thought I only had one hour by the way I hustled to pack up the clothes and the detergent so I could leave.

Make a promise to yourself. Itís true that I was never late for the job I mentioned earlier, however during that same time period, there were some laundry days when I was so late doing the wash Iíd even miss the laundromat that closes after 9 pm! If youíre chronically late for everything, pick one thing, the most important thing and make a vow to never be late again. I first made a vow to never be late for work, when that was accomplished I moved on to the next thing and then the next.

Plan ahead. When I have to go somewhere thatís unfamiliar, I map it out in advance. If itís something important like a job interview, I may even take a test run to the location to see how long it will take to get there. If Iím unable to take a test run, I add twenty or thirty minutes to my estimated time. Iím often very early so I make sure I have something to read in case I have to wait awhile. Itís the same with the laundry. If I know I want to wash clothes on Tuesday, on Monday I separate them and make sure I have enough laundry detergent, quarters etc.

Have a set schedule and stick to it. I leave for work at the same exact time every day or a few minutes earlier. I have a built in cushion so that if I leave at that set time, I always arrive early. I donít take advantage of the cushion to spend more time at home for any reason. I could be writing something intriguing. It doesnít matter, when itís time to go I close the document and leave. Iíve left and forgotten my favorite book. Iíve forgotten my lipstick. One day I even forgot my lunch, but I would not go back to get it, even though I believed I had the time.

Be ruthless. Leave early at the same time every day no matter what. Thereís a reward in it if you do, which brings me to the next tip.

Rush so you can relax. I rush to get on the train early even though I leave in plenty of time. I do this so I can relax. Suppose on the day I forgot my book at home, I went back to get it. I would have had something to read on the train and during my breaks at work, but I would not have had any peace of mind during my commute. I would have worried and fretted about possibly being late instead of relaxing and enjoying the ride.

The same is true with the laundry. I rushed to get it done first thing so I could have peace of mind for the rest of the day. In that peaceful state, I was able to write this entire article (which isnít due for two weeks), take care of a myriad of other errands and have some fun without the burden of doing the laundry hanging over my head.

Never be late again. Youíll feel better, produce more and have more time for fun. Further, your co-workers, family and friends will thank you for being such a dependable and responsible person.
Add Never+Be+Late+Again to Twitter Add Never+Be+Late+Again to Facebook Add Never+Be+Late+Again to MySpace Add Never+Be+Late+Again to Del.icio.us Digg Never+Be+Late+Again Add Never+Be+Late+Again to Yahoo My Web Add Never+Be+Late+Again to Google Bookmarks Add Never+Be+Late+Again to Stumbleupon Add Never+Be+Late+Again to Reddit

RSS | Related Articles | Editor's Picks Articles | Top Ten Articles | Previous Features | Site Map

For FREE email updates, subscribe to the Life Coaching Newsletter

Past Issues

Printer Friendly
tell friend
Tell a Friend
Email Editor

Content copyright © 2015 by Leah Mullen. All rights reserved.
This content was written by Leah Mullen. If you wish to use this content in any manner, you need written permission. Contact Leah Mullen for details.


g features
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Fears and Anxiety

Health Benefits of Drinking More Water

Health Benefits of Peppermint

Archives | Site Map


Past Issues

Less than Monthly

BellaOnline on Facebook

| About BellaOnline | Privacy Policy | Advertising | Become an Editor |
Website copyright © 2016 Minerva WebWorks LLC. All rights reserved.

BellaOnline Editor