When your child is diagnosed with a developmental delay, professionals and advocates often recommend early intervention. At local or regional centers, families of infants and young children find resources for infant stimulation, physical and speech therapy, and make connections with others who have similar concerns and interests.

In some areas, services are offered at local hospitals, or through the local school district, and in others early intervention specialists will come to a family's home. The quality of services and the 'personality match' of staff and families vary depending on the experience and training of therapists and administrators, funding issues, the child's diagnosis and family dynamics.

Keep in mind that early intervention professionals may have less experience with children who have your child's diagnosis than you expect.

It's often helpful to contact national advocacy organizations for book suggestions so that you can read the latest strategies for early intervention support for your child, and play those games at home. Feel free to share the publications with your child's early intervention staff, asking for their opinions of the material.

Books written for families of babies with Down syndrome are helpful resources for babies and young children with various developmental delays because they explain what causes the delay as well as suggesting games to play at home or to address in therapy.

Many families enroll their children in mainstream programs like Gymboree or Kindergym, parks department programs or Mommy and Me classes that may be as helpful as early intervention programs because little ones learn so much from mainstream peers.

These are also helpful because we often need reminders that age appropriate behavior and developmental milestones that are not listed on early intervention checklists can be quite challenging - and they are not related to a child's diagnosis or delay, these are what drive all moms to parenting magazines, classes and specialists.

It is also important to keep all family members integrated and included in the mainstream of our communities, so that we realize how much diversity there is among our child's mainstream peers, and others understand how much more like their peers our children are, rather than how different.